Rep. Zachary Wyatt & Sexual Orientation Legislation

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I just read this article on msnbc.com: Republican Missouri lawmaker: I am gay; let’s stop anti-gay bill aimed at schools.  Bravo, Rep. Wyatt! The Missouri bill HB 2051 seeks to ban discussion of sexual orientation at schools.  Those who oppose the bill see it as an attempt to shelter children to the fact that “gay” exists.  I have to agree.  This sounds like oppression, censorship, and ignorance.  If this were to pass, does that mean a kid who is struggling with his sexual orientation couldn’t bring his concerns to the school counselor?  Does this mean a kid couldn’t talk about how her mom and dad met, or how her mom and mom met?  Does this mean the topic of sexual orientation would be completely ignored?  Actually, it doesn’t.  It means only those who identify as heterosexual would be allowed to speak about their relationships, only stories about heterosexual couples would be read in schools, and sex ed. would focus only on heterosexual issues.  It’s an obvious attempt to ignore reality, and continue making kids feel like crap for the things they can’t change.

If you are going to write legislation, why don’t you update your antidiscrimination laws, or put some funding behind broader bullying research- try to piece out what works in preventing bullying- from how to help the victims to how to help the bully’s themselves.

Government enforced ignorance is not going to protect your child from growing up.  The more you try to hide it, the more they will seek out information.  Unfortunately, if that information is hard to come by they may be getting a lot of misinformation.  What a mistake this would be.  It’s embarrassing, really.  I’m glad Rep. Wyatt spoke up and I hope this makes an impact on his colleagues.

The Hunger Games

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Last week I finished reading the first book of “The Hunger Games” series.  It was AMAZING.  I know this is supposed to be teen lit – but I can’t deny a good, exciting, nail-biting read.  There’s something incredibly captivating about a future society where children are sent off to kill each other for everyone’s amusement.  It’s effed up, that’s for sure.  So unbelievable yet, not, at the same time.  I’m nearing the end of the third book, and I’m disappointed that my Hunger Games fun will soon be over.  This weekend, my new hubs and I are going to see the movie if we find a theater where it’s still playing.

Yeah, we’re a little late to the “game,” so to speak.  We should have known we’d be fans of the books.  It references food in the title, and within the book the descriptions of the food are mouth-watering.  You can almost feel the hunger the characters are experiencing.  I know I find myself drooling at parts, only to be snapped back into some violent situation where there’s no room for drool.  I guess the book really touches on a lot of our base desires and needs when it comes to survival.  Food, shelter, love, pain, violence, desperation.  The book really delves deep into all of these topics, and well, despite the fact that the main characters are teenagers whose immaturity is not masked by the very adult situations they are forced into.  When I’m about to get annoyed at a character’s actions as far as relationships go, I stop and remember – these are teens.  They need to make some dumb mistakes in relationships before they really learn what is a waste of time and what isn’t.  Then, it all fits together for me and I can go on reading knowing that the author is being true to her characters.   It’s a delicate balance between situations that require a special kind of maturity, and situations where you just can’t deny the fact that these characters are, in essence, children. The author masterfully helps the reader navigate this sometimes uncomfortable dichotomy.  Ah yes, what a beautiful dance.

I love the books so far.  I’m so excited to finish the third while at the same time mourning its end.  I’m just going to have to find another story to obsess over and hunger for…any suggestions?

Gettin’ Hitched

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Guess what?  I’m gettin’ hitched in a little more than a week!  Waaahooo!  I’m gonna be an honest woman!  I’m quite excited to be a Mrs.  We are doing a really low-key, low attendance wedding.  We’ll be at my dad and step-mom’s house, and keep it simple.  Later in the fall we are going to invite everyone up to have a belated reception, where we can also celebrate the state of our home and our newest addition to the family.  I’m hoping a lot of people can make it at that time.

The groom’s ring is still in manufacturing; I really hope I get it before noon on the 4th.  Please please please.  We have a cake in the works, and some flowers, as well as a plan to have a Mexican feast.  It will be Cinco de Mayo, after all.  Did you know that the event we celebrate on Cinco de Mayo had a significant impact on the outcome of the American Civil War?  It’s true.  I am looking forward to a virgin Margarita and seeing if it is even worth the effort.  There’s always water!  My best friend in the whole world will be our officiant - she got herself ordained just for us.  Pretty bad-ass, if you ask me.  Our daughter is going to pass us the rings when the time comes and after that it will all be history.  Does it count as a shot-gun wedding if you’re pregnant, but it’s with your second child together?  Hmmm…  I like the sound of it.  It makes us seem much more spontaneous than we really are.  Oh!  I’ll get to say, “my husband blah blah blah” now.  Whoa. 

Moment of Zen

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My daughter and I have a cold!  So what’s new, you say?  Well, nothing really- this is pretty typical.  I just felt the need to share it.  She’s quite chipper though, and I get to have cough drops so I suppose we are even.  Her with her better temperament, and me with my ability to not choke on medicine.  I decided to take the day off, even though I work from home.  I hate feeling like I’m being pulled in two directions; trying to give my daughter plenty of attention and love while trying to give my work a reason to pay me.  I learned this a while back – it’s much better to get rid of the stress and just take the opportunity to spend a day with my daughter.  We already watched Nemo, built some amazing structures with the legos, and now she’s coloring/organizing her colored pencils.  She just loves to organize them, take them out of the jar, put them back in, and every-now-and-then scribble a little.  I love watching her.  It’s equivalent to listening to the rain hit the window or listening to the waves roll in on the beach.  Very soothing.  I love the clankity-clank of the pencils as they rattle against their glass jar.  What a moment of Zen.

A swinging toddler.

Selling Wax and Warmers?

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I have come upon a fork in the road. I have two different paths I could venture down at this point, and I might just be wise enough to make the less “easy” but more rewarding decision. What am I talking about? A job. A career.

I am currently looking at an end of work date of May 30. Unfortunately, the search for a new job is a bit complicated for starting at the beginning of June, when you will be out on maternity leave soon after in July. Rather than look at this as a crisis situation I’ve decided to look at it as an opportunity. Here I have a choice. I can continue the monotonous but well-paying work I’ve been doing – or I can take a risk and try something completely different, that I’m not even sure I’d be good at. I’m gonna go with “try something completely different.” I feel like I just need to take the opportunity or I’ll be wondering what the possibilities may have been. Now before you start cheering me on, know this: I’ve decided to venture into direct sales. Whaaaaat?! Isn’t that a hobby- like something stay at home mom’s do to kill some time – selling Tupperware. Well I say “pish posh!” (I stole that little saying from one of my sisters). First of all, let’s not dog stay at home mom’s as if they really need something to kill time – believe me their time is killed, trampled, eaten, and spit back out plenty just from taking care of the kids and house. Now if a direct sales business is attractive to stay at home moms – or moms who desire to spend more time with their children then that might be a fair assessment. It’s flexible and the commitment is completely up to the person who decided to have their own direct sales business. Okay, so what does all this have to do with me? I was introduced to Scentsy a while back. The wickless candles- where you buy a cute little warmer and some nice smelling wax to melt in it. The other day I decided to look into becoming a consultant for them- and I was drinking the kool-aid right away! Call it my addiction to hot stuff (ahem – coffee, wax) or call it my desperation for a new direction in my life. Either way, I’ve decided to give it a go. A strong, committed go! I know the only way I will actually make anything of this is if I actually step out of my comfort zone and try to sell some quality product and recruit some quality consultants. So here I go.

I debated even mentioning this on my blog, for fear of disenfranchising what little readers I have. I thought about it though, and it wouldn’t make sense not to share this sort of thing with you. I share a lot of other stuff, why not the start of my new Scentsy business? From time to time I can blog about the excitement I feel and how things are going for me. I might even invite you to buy some stuff from me. Well, I can almost guarantee I will. Otherwise, what kind of sales person would I be? ;)

I set up an online launch party for my Scentsy business, so I can get into the game head first. I already have a few customers and that just makes my day! Typically, you would want to celebrate the product in a party format – have a host, bring the samples, eat, drink, sniff wax, and sell some product as well as recruit some more hosts and even consultants. I don’t know many folks in my home town, so getting the person-to-person aspect up and running is going to take me some time. I do, however, have quite a few “online” connections through social media. This seems like the way for me to get started! I’ve opened the party from April 20 to May 4 at the following link:https://waxheaven.scentsy.us/Scentsy/Buy?partyId=83987730
The goal is to get some momentum and move forward. This is a “mystery host” party, where anyone who purchases product will be entered into a drawing to receive the host rewards if we reach over $150 in sales. Fun! I’m so excited to be selling Scentsy. The company has great values and I just love the products myself- can’t say I’m gonna mind the commission I’ll make on products I purchase for myself.

So, was this just a big advertisement or a genuine desire to share my life with you? It’s both!

Obsessions: Nemo, lello, and meem

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Our little daughter has a few obsessions right now – one is the movie Finding Nemo.  She requests this movie by name.  She is so concerned when the dad starts crying because all but one of his babies was eaten.  She starts saying very slowly and quietly, “Nemo?”  Poor thing, I tell her it’s okay, and look there’s baby Nemo in the egg!  Yay!  Other obsessions include the colors yellow (lello) and green (meem).  She seems to think everything is lello unless it is meem (every now and then pink or purple).  Oh – she’s got a thing for Angry Birds (buds).  ”Buds!  Buds!”  Boobs and butt are a popular topic as well- but saying “Not nice” authoritatively might beat all of the obsessions out.  There must be a lot of disciplining going on at school – those poor toddlers.  She’ll do something that isn’t particularly naughty and then say, “Not nice!”  Not nice?  More like not a big deal!  Relax baby!

She’s so cute, I love her little obsessions.  

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Home Creating

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The man and I have been living together since the fall of 2008. This was a house he bought before we were truly living together, although I did come with him when he was considering buying it. In all honesty, I didn’t like the house for a long time. We slept in the kitchen while he completed renovations, there were major stains on the tiles of the kitchen floor, and the place generally creeped me out a bit. Things are quite different now. He has worked so hard to make this house a home. It took a lot of sweat, patience, and a few fights, but we have been continuously improving our little shelter I like to call home. Once the grime was removed, walls painted, holes filled, and lawn was groomed it became something I’m not so eager to leave behind. We almost moved cross-country last year. That didn’t work out, but I’m so glad. I love this house now. It is finally our home, and I’m more than happy to clean the bathroom, mop the floor, and treat it with love. I guess I have no motivation for home-making unless we’ve had a successful home-creating.

My tips for surviving an extended renovation:
1) Keep the big picture in mind. This is something I struggled with. I don’t do well with upheaval, my discomfort with it shows itself in my attitude. My best advice would be to always keep the big picture in mind- a beautiful house, where your family can feel at home is on the horizon. The sacrifices you make now will SO be worth it.
2) Have patience. Renovations will take time because renovations take money. If you are not hiring anyone to help you will be rewarded when you look at your bank account but you will have to have patience. This could take a few years. Really, a house is a constant project as long as you are living in it. Look at it that way.
3) Enjoy small victories. Did you paint the bathroom, finally? Yay! Celebrate it and revel in it. Once the basics are taken care of, take some pride in it, decorate it, make it your own.

Good luck on your own home creating.

Things I Don’t/Do Like

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I just feel the need to report on some of my negative opinions of the stuff I have recently consumed/used, and some of my positive opinions.

*Snapple: I, once again, made the mistake of buying a Snapple Peach Tea. Yuck. I keep thinking I’ll like it but it has an awful after taste that is hard to drown out.

*Zatarains
: I used to like this stuff- but just the smell of it makes me turn green. I’d rather just make my own dirty rice, which is not nearly as complicated as you’d think.

*Blueberry Yogurt: Random, but it reminds me of Vitamins. My daughter loves it so I just try to breathe through my mouth when I open one up for her.

Things I LOVE:

*Tazo tea: Calm is my favorite. I let it steep well beyond the recommended amount of time- but it is so good. I could drink herbal tea all day long.

*Crock pot: I just love to cook dinner in the crock pot. The best part is that the food is cooked, delicious, and ready to serve when my ravenous daughter gets home from young pre-school.

*Aquaphor baby wash/shampoo: I was using Aveeno on my daughter, and it was fine but her skin is significantly smoother and we have less dry patches using the Aquaphor. Success!

Spoiled

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I am spoiled- I think my life is pretty much an embarrassment of riches but I still want more.  What I want most of all, for mother’s day in May, or perhaps in celebration of my son’s arrival in July, is a Keurig.  I must have it!!  It’s so convenient- gives me immediate hot beverages, and is easy clean-up.  The man already knows my biggest wish so I’m betting on getting it.  I might also just give it to myself sooner.  My sister raves about hers, and I’ve had the pleasure of using my step-mom’s Keurig.  They are wonderful little machines.

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